Tools & Charts

Browser-only interactive compatibility and recovery-clock tools, plus the index of source-checked comparison charts across Dot Sexual.

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Dot Sexual’s interactive tools and reference charts are built from the same dated source packets as our articles. Every rule, guideline range and material pairing below shows what was checked, when it was checked, and where a clinician’s written instruction or product label overrides a general tool.

Browser-only, zero tracking of inputs: selections you make in the tools on this page run entirely in your browser. Nothing you select is sent to a server, stored in a database or tied to an account.

Tool 1: Lubricant, Toy Material & Condom Compatibility Checker

Select a lubricant or oil base, a toy material and a condom or barrier type to compare barrier-integrity rules and toy-surface compatibility side by side.

Sources checked 22 October 2026: WHO/UNFPA/FHI condom specification guidance, CDC & NHS condom-lubricant guidance, and manufacturer material-care specifications. Full guides: Coconut oil with condoms and toys · Non-latex condoms compared · Sex-toy materials and cleaning.

Tool 2: “When Can We…?” Recovery & Waiting-Clock Explorer

Many procedures and fertility stages involve two separate clocks—for example, a short wound-comfort clock and a much longer contraceptive-clearance or infection-precaution clock. Pick a situation below to see the clocks separated and open the full sourced timeline.

Tool 3: STI & HIV Test Window-Period Explorer

Select the infection and laboratory assay you are taking alongside how many days have passed since a specific exposure to see whether a negative test today can close the window or requires a scheduled retest.

Sources checked 22 October 2026: U.S. CDC HIV window-period guidance (Aug 2026), CDC 2025 nPEP STI testing schedule, and UKHSA STI screening guidance. Full guides: STI test window periods & retesting · Confidential & postal STI testing by country.

Tool 4: Broken or Slipped Condom & Unprotected Exposure Action Responder

When a condom breaks, slips off or stays inside, different interventions run on different clocks—from the 72-hour HIV PEP cutoff to the 72–120 hour emergency contraception window and the Day-14 / Day-21 / Day-45 testing gates. Choose how long ago the exposure happened and what risks apply.

Sources checked 22 October 2026: CDC 2025 nPEP MMWR, BASHH/BHIVA PEP guidelines, FSRH Emergency Contraception guideline & NHS/ACOG patient guidance. Full guides: Broken or slipped condom timeline · Period & pregnancy test after EC · Emergency contraception by country.

Tool 5: Condom Girth-to-Nominal-Width Band Calculator (ISO 4074 Geometry)

Select your measured erect mid-shaft circumference (girth) and preferred barrier material to calculate the target nominal flat width in millimetres and minimum ISO 4074 / WHO Annex 10 length and airburst specifications.

Sources checked 22 October 2026: ISO 4074, ASTM D3492 & WHO/UNFPA TRS 1025 Annex 10. Full guides: Condom nominal width & ISO 4074 math · Losing erection with a condom · Internal (FC2) condoms.

Save or print your active tool cards: Use your browser’s local print-to-PDF sheet to save your selected compatibility, waiting-clock, window-period, 120-hour triage, or nominal-width outputs offline (zero server uploads).

Published reference charts and comparison tables

Research deskChart or comparison tableGuide link
Country Guides / Safer ProductsInstant-delivery Shop & Deliver apps vs dark-store couriers vs pharmacist-sealed delivery vs pharmacy Click & Collect and 24/7 postal lockersInstant-delivery apps vs pharmacy pickup
Country Guides / Safer ProductsUS (19 U.S.C. § 1305 / FDA 21 CFR § 884.5960), UK, EU, Canada & Australia sex-toy import laws vs Maldives, Saudi Arabia, UAE, Thailand & Malaysia customs bansBuying & importing sex toys by country
Country GuidesUnmarried couple hotel laws across US/UK/EU/Canada/Australia, 2020–2026 UAE & Saudi tourist reforms, and US 18 vs 21 check-in age policiesUnmarried couples & hotel rules by country
Country Guides / Safer ProductsUSPS Hold for Pickup (15d), Royal Mail Local Collect (18d), Canada Post FlexDelivery (15d, no door card) & AusPost 24/7 Parcel LockersBuying condoms, lube & toys privately
Country GuidesUS (TSA/FAA), UK (GOV.UK), Canada (CATSA) & Australia (CASA) cabin rules vs Maldives, Saudi Arabia, Thailand & UAE customs bansFlying with sex toys and lubricant
Country GuidesUS, UK, Canada & Australia over-the-counter, pharmacist and prescription rules for levonorgestrel, ulipristal acetate and copper IUDsEmergency contraception across countries
Country GuidesUS, UK, Canada & Australia public sexual-health clinics, postal self-sampling kits and insurance/health-card privacy trapsConfidential and postal STI testing by country
Country Guides / Normal or Not?CDC, UKHSA, PHAC & ASHM standard asymptomatic STI panel inclusions (chlamydia, gonorrhoea, HIV, syphilis) vs omissions (HSV, HPV, M. genitalium)What a standard STI panel tests & misses
How Long? / Life StagesSubtotal (cervix-sparing, 4–6w) vs total hysterectomy vaginal cuff healing timeline (6–12w) & 2026 vaginal cuff dehiscence risk dataSex after a hysterectomy: vaginal cuff timeline
How Long? / Life StagesEarly miscarriage & D&C zero-bleeding gate (plus 3-week pregnancy test) vs ectopic pregnancy β-hCG rupture gate & 3-month methotrexate washoutSex after miscarriage, D&C or ectopic pregnancy
How Long? / Country GuidesFSRH & CDC period-shift expectations after levonorgestrel vs ulipristal EC, 5-day hormone wait rule & the 21-day pregnancy test schedulePeriod & pregnancy test timing after EC
How Long? / Country GuidesHour-1, 72-hour (HIV PEP & LNG EC), 5-day (ulipristal/Cu-IUD), Day-14, Day-21 & Day-45/90 action timeline after a broken or slipped condomCondom broke or slipped off timeline
How Long?ASCRS & ACPGBI non-anal vs receptive anal healing gates across fissures, rubber band ligation & excisional haemorrhoidectomy (8–12 weeks)Sex after haemorrhoids, fissures or surgery
How Long?Laparoscopic (TEP/TAPP) vs open mesh (Lichtenstein) vs tissue (Shouldice) inguinal hernia repair sex & lifting timelinesSex after inguinal hernia repair
How Long?Bikini/Brazilian wax (24–48h) vs laser hair removal (24–72h) wait times & folliculitis vs herpes/ingrown bump triageSex after bikini wax or laser hair removal
How Long?APP genital (VCH, PA, labia, frenum, hafada) and nipple piercing healing & mandatory fluid-barrier timelinesGenital & nipple piercing healing timelines
How Long?CDC & UKHSA STI and HIV window periods by assay (NAT, lab 4th-gen vein draw, rapid finger-stick, oral self-test, NAAT & syphilis)STI test window periods and retesting
How Long?Diagnostic vs operative hysteroscopy (polyp/fibroid removal) and endometrial biopsy wait timesSex after hysteroscopy or endometrial biopsy
How Long?Transperineal vs transrectal prostate biopsy wait times and the 6–12 week blood-in-semen timelineSex after a prostate biopsy
How Long?Insertion vs orgasm/arousal restrictions decoded across pelvic-rest scenariosPelvic rest, explained
How Long? / Country GuidesUS AUA, CDC, UK BAUS/NHS, Canadian & Australian post-vasectomy clearance timelinesSex and masturbation after a vasectomy
How Long? / Country GuidesCopper vs hormonal IUD protection clock + UK, Canadian & Australian clinic aftercare sheetsSex, tampons and baths after IUD insertion
How Long?Colposcopy look-only vs punch biopsy vs LLETZ/LEEP 4-week healing timelineSex after colposcopy, biopsy or LLETZ
How Long?Adult circumcision vs frenuloplasty week-by-week stitch and friction recovery tableAdult circumcision & frenuloplasty timeline
How Long?WHO 2–7 day semen analysis abstinence standard vs IUI/IVF DNA-fragmentation windowAbstinence window before semen analysis or IVF
Safer ProductsISO 4074, ASTM D3492 & WHO Annex 10 condom nominal width brackets (45–69 mm), minimum length/airburst standards & girth-to-width mathCondom nominal width & ISO 4074 math
Safer ProductsWHO/UNFPA personal lubricant osmolality targets (≤380 to ≤1,200 mOsm/kg), the 8.3% glycol rule, vaginal vs rectal pH & ingredient auditHow to read a lubricant label: osmolality & pH
Safer Products / Country GuidesFC2 synthetic nitrile internal condom specs (170 mm, oil-safe), slippage/noise fixes & US ACA, UK NHS, Canadian and Australian accessInternal (female) condoms (FC2) guide
Safer Products / Normal or Not?ACOG, RCOG, SOGC & BAD audit of foaming intimate washes, feminine deodorant sprays and alum/herbal “vaginal tightening” gelsIntimate washes & tightening gels audit
Safer Products / ResearchMozilla *Privacy Not Included Bluetooth vs cloud sex-toy telemetry architecture & 7-step digital privacy hardening checklistApp-connected sex toys & privacy guide
Safer ProductsPolyisoprene vs polyurethane vs internal nitrile vs lambskin condom comparison & oil rulesNon-latex condoms compared
Safer ProductsFDA OTC Monograph M017 benzocaine (3%–7.5%) vs metered lidocaine delay sprays, partner transfer & latex rulesDelay condoms, sprays and wipes
Safer ProductsMenstrual disc (fornix, no suction) vs menstrual cup (canal, suction seal) during sex & 2024 copper IUD expulsion trial dataMenstrual disc vs cup during sex & IUD strings
Safer ProductsCoconut oil compatibility across latex, polyisoprene, polyurethane, nitrile and toy materialsCoconut oil with condoms and toys
Safer ProductsSilicone, glass, steel, ABS and TPE/TPR porosity, cleaning and barrier rulesSex-toy materials and cleaning guide
Safer ProductsCondom erection-loss troubleshooting matrix + the 10-minute solo fit checkLosing your erection putting on a condom
Normal or Not? / How Long?DSM-5-TR GPPPD & vaginismus vs provoked vestibulodynia vs hymenal variants + the 6-step vaginal dilator progression ladderVaginismus & GPPPD dilator therapy guide
Normal or Not?ISSM, AUA & DSM-5-TR premature ejaculation diagnostic criteria (~1 min lifelong vs ≤3 min acquired) & Waldinger’s 4 subtypesFinishing under 2 minutes: ISSM criteria
Normal or Not?Postcoital peeing, warm-water external washing and vaginal douching evidence grades (AUA / HHS OWH / CDC)Peeing, washing and douching after sex
Normal or Not?Clinician-measured bone-pressed vs self-reported penis-size study comparison (Veale et al.)Average penis size: how studies measure
Life Stages3-tier ladder for breastfeeding vaginal dryness (iso-osmolar lube, hyaluronic moisturiser & low-dose local vaginal oestrogen after 6 weeks) + LAM rulesBreastfeeding vaginal dryness & prolactin
Life StagesFirst-time sex 6-item bedside checklist (condom solo practice, water/silicone lube, pause rule) vs 5 heavily marketed products to skipFirst-time sex preparation checklist
Life StagesNICE NG73 & ESHRE endometriosis deep dyspareunia anatomy, depth-limiting positions/buffers & 2026 pelvic floor physiotherapy RCT evidenceEndometriosis deep pain & positions guide
Life StagesWedding-night & unconsummated relationship factors (situational ED vs vaginismus) and 4-stage clinical roadmapFirst-night pressure & unconsummated relationships
Life StagesIleostomy, colostomy & urostomy pre-sex pouch prep, wraps, gelling sachets and post-pelvic-surgery nerve changesSex with a stoma (colostomy, ileostomy, urostomy)
Life StagesOveractive (hypertonic/tight) vs underactive (weak) pelvic floor symptoms and down-training stepsTight vs weak pelvic floor & Kegels
Life Stages2023/2024 International PCOS Guideline meta-analysis on desire, lubrication, body image and fertility pressurePCOS and your sex life
Life StagesWaterloo motion-capture spine setups (flexion vs extension intolerance) and arthritis pillow modificationsSex with back pain or arthritis
Life StagesPostpartum recovery gates across 1st–4th degree perineal tears, episiotomy and C-sectionSex after birth by tear degree & C-section
Life StagesLubricant vs regular vaginal moisturiser vs low-dose local vaginal estrogen comparisonLubricant vs vaginal moisturiser vs estrogen
Research / Normal or Not?Waldinger’s 5 preliminary diagnostic criteria & 7 symptom clusters for Post-Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS) and 2025 JSM treatment reviewPost-orgasmic illness syndrome (POIS)
Research / Normal or Not?Frederick et al. (n = 52,588) orgasm gap rates (95% vs 65%), Herbenick 18.4% PVI-only finding & 4 PLOS ONE techniques (Angling, Rocking, Shallowing, Pairing)The orgasm gap & clitoral anatomy studies
ResearchEMA PRAC, Health Canada, UK MHRA, Medsafe & FDA antidepressant (SSRI/SNRI) persistent sexual dysfunction (PSSD) label map & prescriber optionsAntidepressants (SSRIs/SNRIs) & PSSD evidence
ResearchFinasteride 1 mg vs 5 mg Phase III sexual side-effect rates (3.8% vs 2.1% placebo), nocebo studies & UK MHRA / FDA / EMA persistent label warningsFinasteride sexual side effects & labels
ResearchPostcoital dysphoria (crying/sadness after orgasm), sexually induced sneezing and ICHD-3 thunderclap sex headache triageCrying, sneezing or headaches at orgasm
ResearchPATH study (n = 13,711) e-cigarette vs erectile dysfunction odds (aOR 2.24–2.41) & nicotine vascular mechanismsVaping, nicotine and erections
ResearchLongitudinal pornography frequency studies vs the Moral Incongruence (PPMI) model & ICD-11 CSBD criteriaPorn-induced ED vs moral incongruence
ResearchGLP-1 receptor agonists: sexual-function studies, hormone meta-analysis & FDA contraception washout rulesGLP-1 drugs and sex drive

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Last reviewed and updated: 22 October 2026.